Tuesday, May 31, 2016

REVIEW & GIVEAWAY: Mother & Son The Respect Effect [GIVEAWAY CLOSED]

Ephesians 5:33 - However, let each one of you love his wife as
himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. (ESV)

Love and respect are two different things. Ephesians 5:33 teaches husbands to love their wives, and wives to respect their husbands. I have always wondered why God instructed wives to respect their husbands, rather than love them, and have recently come to understand it is because men will not feel loved UNLESS they are respected. It is the same with boys and girls. Girls are young women, so they respond best to love. Boys are young men, so they respond best to respect. This teaching is the basic grounds of a new book by Emerson Eggerichs called, Mother & Son: The Respect Effect. 

A mother can love her son and still not show him respect. She may feel like her son does not deserve respect because of his disobedience or disrespectful attitude towards her. She may believe he needs to EARN her respect. However, this book shares how it is possible for her to address her son's disobedience WITHOUT being rude (i.e. disrespectful).

SIMPLE DEFINITION:  A mother's respect is her positive regard toward her son, no matter what he does. (p. 14)

This is one of the few books I know about that addresses the relationship between a mother and a son. I am only in chapter 3 of the book but, so far, I have agreed with what I have read and have found the book to be a useful tool for moms of ANY age sons. It is easy to read, and full of helpful information that tells mothers how to use "respect-talk" with their sons in order to improve and/or strengthen their relationship. At the end of chapter one, the author says:  
"When a mother does what I set forth in this book, even when she and her son have bad days, her son will respond less negatively. I acknowledge that things may not be as positive as she hopes and prays, but they will be better." 
If you are the mother of a son, I encourage you to pick up a copy of this book. Or, if you would like a  chance to WIN a copy, use the entry form below. Entries will be accepted until Saturday, June 4, 2016, at 8:00 p.m. CST. One entry per mailing address.

"Disclosure (in accordance with the FTC’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”): Many thanks to Propeller Consulting, LLC for providing this prize for the giveaway. Choice of winners and opinions are 100% my own and NOT influenced by monetary compensation. I did receive a sample of the product in exchange for this review and post.
Only one entrant per mailing address, per giveaway.  If you have won a prize from our sponsor Propeller / FlyBy Promotions in the last 30 days, you are not eligible to win.  Or if you have won the same prize on another blog, you are not eligible to win it again. Winner is subject to eligibility verification.”

Sunday, May 29, 2016

Giving Honor On Memorial Day

The word of the week is HONOR
: to regard or treat (someone) with respect and admiration : to show admiration for (someone or something) in a public way 

The verse above says we should give honor where honor is due. I know the verse is referring to those in authority over us, but I think the premise is still the same regarding ALL of mankind. So, I encourage you to remember this verse tomorrow on Memorial Day - a day when we show our patriotism, and honor the lost lives of our military men and women.

Some people don't really care about Memorial Day. One reason they give is that the deceased don't know we are honoring them, so what's the point? But, from my point of view, it is more for our own benefit than for the benefit of the deceased. It is done out of remembrance of them, just like how you write a note on your calendar that says, "Grandma died one year ago today." You write it down in order to remember and reminisce about the time you had with your loved one. 

Another reason given for not caring about Memorial Day is the belief that war is wrong. But, when we observe Memorial Day, it doesn't mean we are agreeing with our government's decisions and/or the wars that have come about. It just means we are taking time to recognize those who have served and protected us in the line of duty.

TheNational Moment of Remembrance resolution was passed in December 2000, and it asks that at 3:00 p.m. (local time) on Memorial Day, all Americans “voluntarily and informally observe in their own way a Moment of Remembrance and respect, pausing from whatever they are doing for a moment of silence or listening to Taps.”

Below is a version of Taps from the United States Navy Band. Take a few minutes out of your day to listen to it (or another version of your choice), and then take a moment of silence to:
  • remember the fallen
  • pray for the families who have lost loved ones
  • pray for our government, including our current and future President
  • and pray for the Spiritual condition of America 

Our God is a big God. He will listen to your prayers, and He will give honor where honor is due. 


Sunday, May 22, 2016

The Rewards of Parenting

The word of the week is REWARD.
: something given or received in return or recompense for service, merit, hardship, etc.
As a parent of two children, sometimes I ask myself why I continue to do the things I do for them. I think this most often when:
  • I’m showing my kids vacation pictures from 3 or 4 years ago, and they don’t remember most of it.
  • They can’t seem to do a math problem they were doing quite well just a few weeks ago, so we have to start all over again.
  • They can’t seem to remember to feed the cat, unload the dishwasher, or take the garbage out without being reminded.

When these things continually happen, I get frustrated and wonder, “Am I the only one with kids who have such short-term memories?” I know I’m not, but sometimes I can't help but wonder why I should even bother teaching them things, or giving them opportunities to see things they wouldn’t normally see if they are just going to forget about it all! What's the point in trying!?

The truth is, your kids might not remember everything you did with them, or everything you’ve tried to teach them; but they will remember that you cared about them. They will look back on old pictures and listen to you telling the stories of when those events and special trips took place. They will love you for loving them, and for showing your love by spending time with them. And, with consistency and time, they will (by God's grace) eventually grow up to be mature, responsible adults who will finally remember to take the garbage out. It just takes time.

My sister (who has two adult children) recently reminded me, “Being a parent is the hardest yet most rewarding job ever.”  So, keep plodding along, Moms and Dads. Enjoy your children while you have them in your care. Enjoy the hugs, kisses, smiles and laughter. If you allow God to help you through the challenging times, you will be rewarded for your time.

Tuesday, May 17, 2016

REVIEW: Live Fearless (An Adult Coloring Book)

Coloring and being creative isn't just for kids. Live Fearless, by Margaret Feinberg, is an adult
coloring book that provides an opportunity for you to mentally step away from the busyness of life in order to color, pray, doodle, reflect, and journal. At the same time, you get to focus on a Bible verse that will help you rediscover the goodness and faithfulness of God, no matter what you are facing.

I love this idea! There are 20 verses, with 20 coloring pages, and 20 journaling pages that can all be used to help you reflect on God's Word and deepen your faith in Him. Then, you can also encourage others by taking a photo of a finished page and posting it on social media sites with the hashtag #livefree.

The only thing I think the book could use is maybe some more pages.

For a peek of the inside, check it out here on AMAZON.com.

NOTE:  I received a free copy of this book from the publisher, and I have shared my own opinion.

Sunday, May 15, 2016

Meals Our Moms Made and What We Still Eat Today

The word of the week is MEAL 
:  the food eaten or prepared for eating at one time :  the act or time of eating

When I was growing up, my family usually ate our main meal of the day sitting at a table, talking about life events or sharing about our day. David's family did the same; and this is something we have tried to continue with our own family as much as possible. Eating is something we all must do in order to survive, but it is also a good way to socialize, fellowship, celebrate special events, and  connect as a family.

Most of the meals our moms made for us were home cooked, and I thought it would be fun to reminisce about the meals our moms made, and to see what meals I am still making today for our own family.

Meals My Mom Made
My mom used her Crock-pot quite a bit. She made things like:
  • Pork chops and sour kraut (Yep, I still make this occasionally, but the kids don't like the sour kraut)
  • Chicken (Yes. I have several different chicken recipes for the crockpot)
  • Roast, potatoes and carrots (I have tried to make this a few times, but the roast never turned out good, so I quit making it)
She also made:
  • Fried Chicken and Fried Pork Chops (This was probably my favorite meal she made. I don’t fry meats for my family because of the mess it makes, but we like to go out and get it once in awhile.)
  • Meatloaf (Mom always put onions in her meatloaf, which I didn’t care for. These days, I make Italian meatloaf for my crew, which doesn't have onions)
  • Spaghetti with meat sauce, all mixed together with the pasta (Who doesn’t make spaghetti? I make mine with the sauce separate from the pasta most of the time, and often have meatballs in the sauce instead of ground beef) 
  • Lasagna (I love lasagna. I make it a couple times each year)
  • Creamed beef gravy on toast (Yep. It’s a cheap meal to feed a family)
  • Grilled cheese sandwiches (I still make this. But, I like to use sour dough bread)
  • Chopped steaks in ketchup gravy (I don’t make this. My family is not a fan of ketchup gravy)
  • Shepherds pie on a plate - made by putting down a homemade hamburger patty, mashed potatoes on top of that, then peas, and topped with brown gravy. (I don’t make this. David thinks it’s the grossest thing on the planet.)
  • Chili (Oh, yes! With lots of shredded cheese and corn chips - and no onions! But, I have to make a pot with beans and a pot without, since beans do not agree with my husband)
  • Ham and Beans with cornbread (I do not make this - again, because of the beans.)
  • Cowboy Beans (I always liked this meal, and it is cheap. But, once again, I can’t make it because of the beans.)
  • Beans-n-Franks (Nope. It has beans)
  • Homemade pizza (Yes, we made this in our early years of marriage. But, now it’s a lot easier to just go get a frozen pizza, or order it from Little Ceasar’s)           
  • Tacos - soft shell or hard shell (I LOVE tacos! Definitely still make this, as well as Taco Casserole or Taco Salad)
  • Liver and Onions (Are you kidding me? No way would I ever make this!)
  • Salmon patties (I’ve made these a few times. Not often. Its not a favorite of ours)
  • Spam in a can (Nope. Never made it. I ate it back then, but don't care for it now)
  • Biscuits and Sausage Gravy (Yes. This is a favorite, especially of my husband)
  • Ham on holidays (Yes)
  • Dad would grill meats on occasion (Yes, I love to grill)
  • Chicken and Beef pot pie (I make a version of it with stuffing instead of crust)
  • Chicken and Dumplings (Yes, I make this. Good stuff!)
  • Beef Stew (I make it occasionally. Its not a favorite for my crew. When I make it, I leave out the cabbage and the onions my mom always added)

Side Dishes included things like:
  • Fried potatoes (I love these, but rarely make them because of the mess)
  • Potato cakes (I’ve made these occasionally)
  • Cooked apples (Yes, I’ve made these. A good way to use up apples that are getting soft)
  • Vegetables - corn, green beans, peas, Brussel sprouts, carrots (Yes, I make most of these - no peas or Brussel sprouts)
  • Macaroni and cheese from a box (Yep!)
  • Salad (Yes, but I don’t mix it all together like Mom did. I put the fixings in separate bowls and let everyone add what they want. David's mom taught me that)
  • Pork-n-Beans / Baked Beans (I make these sometimes because EL and I like these, but the boys don’t eat them)
  • Mashed potatoes with brown gravy or white gravy (Oh, yes.)
And, don't forget the sweet treats:
  • Cake with homemade powdered sugar frosting (I get my frosting from a can)
  • Fudge (Yum! But, I don’t make it very often anymore.)
  • Divinity (I have prize-winning Divinity at the IL State Fair, by using my mom’s recipe!)
  • Rock Candy (This was a cheap treat for us around the holidays. I have made it a couple times)
  • Pie crust cookies (I have never made these because I never take the time to make homemade pie crust, but I LOVED these! Maybe I should make them with store-bought crusts sometime!)
  • Chocolate Chip Cookies (Oh, yum! Yes, I still make these)

Meals David’s Mom Made
According to David, his mom made a lot of the same things my mom made (Roast, Stew, Chili, Spaghetti, lasagna, pot pie, grilled cheese, hamburgers, and Spam), but she also made a lot of casseroles such as:
  • Ham and Cheese Casserole (Yes, I make this today with her recipe)
  • Pizza Casserole (I haven’t made this in a long time, but I used to make it a lot)
  • Tater Tot Casserole (I like it, but David hates it, so I don’t make it)
She also made things like:
  • Pizza Burgers (Yes, I make)
  • Pancakes for supper (Yes, I make)
  • Fried Fish (We eat a lot of Tilapia, but I bake it more than fry it)
  • Baked Chicken (I usually put chicken in my crockpot instead of the oven)
  • Stuffed peppers (No, I don’t make this)
  • Reuben sandwiches (Yes, at least once per year. David and I love it!)
  • Occasionally, they would go out to eat for Gyros (We have never done this)
  • Salsbury Steak (Yes, I have made this)
Side Dishes and Desserts include:
  • Party mashed potatoes (Yes, I have made these, especially on holidays)
  • Corn casserole (Yes, definitely! This is a favorite of ours)
  • Orange fluff salad (Yes, another favorite on holidays)
  • Asparagus (I was never able to make this come out right)
  • Angel food cake with chocolate frosting (I have rarely made this)
  • Jello Cake (I have made it a few times, but usually use strawberry Jell-o instead of lemon-lime) 
Do you remember what your mom or grandma made for your family meal table?What was your favorite dish that you still make today?

Tuesday, May 10, 2016

GIVEAWAY: The League & The Lantern by Brian Wells [CLOSED]

The League and the Lantern by Brian Wells is a great book for middle-school aged readers, especially boys! It is the first book in a new adventure series, and starts when a dangerous organization invades Jake Herndon’s seventh-grade sleepover at the Museum of Science and Industry in Chicago, IL. This is a place my family is familiar with, so it was fun to read about the exhibits we have seen and experienced at the museum, such as the giant man-made tornado.

As the story progresses, Jake and his two new friends unravel a mystery dating back to the Civil War era, and discover an incredible secret about Jake’s family. They eventually leave Chicago and spend a lot of time in Springfield, IL, where they have adventures at the IL State Fairgrounds, the Abraham Lincoln Presidential Library and Museum, and Lincoln's Tomb. These are also locations our family has been to and are very familiar with. 

I have been reading the book aloud with my kids, and it has been hard for us to put it down. The funny scenes and the adventure have kept our interest. Plus, I love how it incorporates things that interest kids of middle school age, such as Captain America, the Avengers, Star Wars, The Princess Bride, Super Mario, and The Chronicles of Narnia. Besides that, the history based around the events of the Civil War is an added educational bonus.

This is not a faith-based book, but is definitely family friendly - a book your entire family would enjoy. You can download the first 6 chapters here to see what you think of it:  THE LEAGUE & THE LANTERN SNEAK PEAK

If you would like a chance to win a copy of this book, fill out the entry form below. Entries will be accepted until Saturday, May 14, 2016, at 8:00 p.m. CST. One entry per mailing address.

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Sunday, May 8, 2016

My Mom

The word of the week is MOTHER (Of course! What else would it be on Mother's Day!)
: a term of address for a female parent or a woman having or regarded as having the status, function, or authority of a female parent.
Not everyone has had the privilege of being raised by a great mom - I know that - and, I'm truly sorry if this is a hard day for you for whatever reason. But, I want to take this opportunity to tell you a little bit about my mom, because she is a huge part of what made me the person I am today. She is not perfect but she has been (and always will be) the perfect mom for me; and I am sure my brother and sister would say the same. Let me tell you about our mom....
  • She was born a beautiful, natural red head.
  • She was number 3 out of 5 children.
  • She was born premature and nearly died as an infant.
  • She married my dad at the age of 16, and has been married to him for 54 years!
  • She raised three children (one of them is me) and, along with Dad, did her best to train us in the way we should go (Proverbs 22:6).
  • She was a stay at home mom and homemaker.
  • She was always organized and liked things neat and tidy.
  • She had a set day of each week when she cleaned the house - Mondays.
  • She made home cooked meals, and was a good cook. (I'll probably cover that more in an upcoming blog post.)
  • She was almost always home for us when we got home from school.
  • She often had baked treats for us when we got home from school.
  • She accepted Christ at the age of 21, and her love for Him is evident.
  • She taught me and my siblings about the Lord and had us memorize verses.
  • She keeps a prayer journal and has prayed faithfully for her family over the years.
  • She loves to laugh and have a good time.
  • She has been known to throw a few temper tantrums, but always apologized and didn’t stay mad for long.
  • Her favorite meat is pork chops.
  • Her favorite dessert is blackberry pie.
  • Her favorite verse is Hebrews 13:5 - Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” (ESV)
  • Her favorite song is Gentle Shepherd.
  • She is honest and loving.
  • She is a generous and giving person.
  • She is a great listener, and a great encourager.
If you know her and have her in your life as a family member or friend, I hope you know how blessed you are. I know I am blessed.

Friday, May 6, 2016

REVIEW: Veggie Tales Puppies and Guppies DVD (+ $5.00 Coupon)

Veggie Tales has been a favorite of my kids (especially my daughter) since they were old enough to sit in front of a TV and watch a DVD. I always enjoyed them as well. I loved the great animation, the humor, the catchy songs, and the Biblical messages each story shared.

More recently, Big Idea Entertainment has released a new version of the lovable veggies in a Netflix original series called Veggie Tales in the House, and I was sent a copy of Veggie Tales in the House: Puppies and Guppies from Fish Flix in order to give my honest opinion of it. Honestly, I guess I'm stuck in the past because I don't really care as much for the new version. The animation is different, the voices of some of the characters are different, and the songs are not as catchy. But, regardless of my personal opinions, I am thankful the stories are wholesome, family friendly, and include Biblical messages because my special needs daughter was captivated by them (as she is with most cartoons that have lots of colors, action, and music). Family friendly and Biblical are always good things, as far as I'm concerned. So, I appreciate the work Big Idea Entertainment has done to bring these types of shows to our kids. I will not object to my daughter watching these videos again if she chooses.

Whether you like the old version of Veggie Tales, or the new version, Fish Flix has many to choose from on their website. They also have a large selection of other family friendly and Christian Movies at very reasonable prices. When you purchase from them, you are helping to support a Christian family-owned company that believes "God is honored by hard work, good service and quality products." If you are ready to give them a try for your next DVD purchase, you can sign up for their weekly e-mail newsletter and receive a $5.00 off coupon.

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Tuesday, May 3, 2016

REVIEW: "Jesus Inspires Me" Coloring Book

Do you have a child in your life who loves to draw, color, or design, and you want them to be able to do that while still learning about God? If so, then this is the book for you.

Jesus Inspires Me is a coloring and activity book featuring the familiar faces of Graham Blanchard’s “Knowing My God” board book series. The book is full of cute illustrations with lots of detail, and the characters encourage little artists to draw, color, reflect, solve, decorate, and imagine. The best part is how the pages include Scripture verses, so it is a good way for kids to create and have fun, while also learning God's Word.

One thing that would be fun is for kids to color one of the pages from the book, carefully tear it out, and either frame it to put on their bedroom wall or give it away to family or friends.What a neat way to teach kids about encouraging others with Scripture!

Here's an example of one of the coloring pages.

NOTE:  I was given a copy of this coloring book from the publisher for the purpose of this review.

Sunday, May 1, 2016

An Evening with Casting Crowns

The word of the week is BUCKET LIST
:  a list of things that one has not done before but wants to do before dying
Last weekend, my husband and I accomplished one of our "bucket list" items (at least it was on my list, but I know he was thrilled to be able to go, too). We went to a Casting Crowns concert, and it was amazing! Casting Crowns is my favorite musical group, and I had never seen them in person before this. When I found out they were going to be playing at Olivet Nazarene University, not too far from family, we jumped at the chance. (An early birthday present for me - Yay!)

A peek inside Centennial Chapel. It seats 3000 people, and the concert was SOLD OUT!

It wasn't a specific album tour, but was sponsored by Shine FM and was labeled as "An Evening with Casting Crowns." The group sang a mix of songs from ALL of their albums, and the opening song was Lifesong (from the album Lifesong). Here's a short clip of it:

When they came out on stage, I was so excited to be able to see and hear them up close - the people who have musically touched my life in so many ways. I was overwhelmed with emotions. 

After Lifesong, they launched into several songs from the Thrive album. Mark Hall (the lead singer/songwriter), spoke about a huge tree he visited with the youth from his church and how the roots of the tree were just as long and deep as the far-reaching branches. He used this illustration to share how we need to be rooted in God, like a tree firmly planted by the water.

Jeremiah 17:8 - They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.

Another song from the Thrive album was "Just Be Held." We didn't get a clip of that one, but I am mentioning it because it really touched me. Mark sang this song after talking about his journey with cancer. He wrote the song a couple of years before he was diagnosed, but said God knew what He was doing by giving him that song ahead of time. Praise the Lord, Mark kicked cancer in the butt, and so did I.

During intermission, David and I took a "selfie" of us sitting in our seats.  

There were way too many songs sung to list them all. Some of them were shortened, due to time constraints, and I didn't like that part; but, they sang plenty of full-length songs also, many of my favorites. One of David's favorites was the updated hymn At Calvary from their Live Worship album.

We also got a clip of the well-known song, Praise You in This Storm. In this clip, you can see the worship that was taking place during this song - not worship of the band, but worship of our Heavenly Father, the God who made Heaven and Earth.

I don't remember what the final song of the night was but, after the final song, there was a lot of clapping and carrying on by the crowd until the group came back out for an encore and did two more songs. I think (my memory is getting bad) the final encore song was Glorious Day (Living He Loved Me), from the album Until the Whole World Hears. It was the perfect song to end with because we were reminded that "one day the trumpet will sound for His coming, one day the skies with His glory will shine." One day, the Lord will be coming back to take us home and, oh, what a glorious day that will be.

I wish we had gotten a clip of how they ended the concert and left the stage for good. We were nearing the end of the final song when they all exited the stage, leaving the audience to finish singing the song out on our own - no one on the stage, no music, no lights - just the audience singing and worshiping together a cappella. Then, the lights came on and we were done. Awesome.

I did have just one major disappointment about this concert... I wished it could have lasted longer...